How do you think a “normal” breakup reaction should look like?
Ending a relationship isn’t the easiest decision to make, but sometimes it can make you feel good. Even if you’re not the one to call it quits, being dumped might be a blessing in disguise. Naturally, everyone has a different breakup reaction, but the way you process things might be written in the stars. Whether you’re the type to break the dance floor in a club, join dating apps the minute you finish saying your goodbyes, delete your ex’s number when they’re done talking, or wallow in bed with a pint of ice cream, your zodiac sign can reveal a lot more about you.
If you’ve wondered why some people take more time to process a breakup while others can move on effortlessly, astrology might be the answer you were looking for. If you’ve been with us for a while, you already know we’re strong believers that we’re different from one another, but our zodiac signs can also influence how we behave and think, making us similar in certain ways.
We wanted to know each zodiac sign’s breakup reaction, so we had a chat with different astrologers to get some answers. With that being said, if you’re just as curious as we were, keep reading, because we’ll immediately dive into how each sign handles heartbreak. From emotional water signs like Cancer to the practical earth signs that keep it together on the surface, everyone has a different breakup reaction. Let’s take a look:
1. Aries
Aries are known for their courage and high standards; being dumped isn’t part of their plan. Since you hate losing, you’re more likely to distract yourself with new experiences. According to astrologers, you can be impulsive and take things personally, so don’t be surprised if you’re angry at first.
However, you’ll immediately remember your worth and strength and quickly bounce back. You’ll be stronger than ever and show that person how amazing you are. After all, it’s their loss, right? Embrace this time as a chance to explore your passions, meet new people, and reignite your adventurous spirit. Use your energy to set new goals and focus on personal growth. Don’t forget that each setback can lead to greater opportunities. Trust in your resilience—better things are just around the corner, so be patient!
2. Taurus
Dear Taurus, when someone tells you they no longer want you in their life, your breakup reaction might not come immediately. Since you value security and stability so much, the end of a romantic partnership can feel like a huge loss. You’ll need time and peace to process your feelings and mourn the relationship.
You don’t like jumping from one thing to another, because you know that’s only a way to surpass your feeling. You might need people around you, some good movies and food, and slower, familiar routines, but once you get over it, it’s like you were never hurt in the first place. You know you learned something from the past and you’re ready for what the future has planned for you.
…Keep reading to discover how the rest of the zodiac signs react to a breakup!
3. Cancer
Cancer is one of the loveliest, nurturing, and most sensitive signs in the zodiac, and they’re more likely to have an emotional breakup reaction. You’ll probably feel hurt and rejected, but once you remember how great and strong you are, you’ll know you don’t need someone else to make you happy.
At first, you might be tempted to reach out to family members and close friends, find comfort in activities that bring you joy, and reflect on where things went wrong. You tend to hold onto the past, making it harder to fully let go of an ex. Your healing process takes time, but your healing nature will help you move forward, think more positively, and be ready to embrace love again.
4. Gemini
When a Gemini is dumped, they might seem fine on the surface, but once they’re alone, they’ll start thinking about their feelings, what went wrong, and why. You might distract yourself with social interactions and things that keep you busy but don’t forget that you can’t walk away from your feelings.
Astrologers say there’s a chance you could be experiencing mood swings, relief, and sadness at the same time, but you can easily adapt to new things. You’re intelligent, rational, and positive, so while you’ll understand all the reasons that your relationship wasn’t meant to last, you’ll find yourself visiting the memories out of nostalgia or curiosity.
…Don’t get too caught up in the past, dear Gemini! Your future is bright and lovely!
5. Leo
Leos are known for being proud and energetic. They’re aware of their worth, so they will always act like a prize. Depending on how serious the relationship was, your ego might be hurt more than your heart. You’re confident and strong and your first breakup reaction might be confusion because you can’t understand how could that person just walk away from you like that. Don’t worry. You’ve got this.
However, pay attention to your actions, because you tend to quickly seek validation elsewhere. Don’t forget to seek that approval within yourself first, because your thoughts always matter. Surround yourself with people who make you laugh, put that incredible creativity you have to good use, and you’ll be golden. Since you’re a bit of a show-off, you might flaunt those projects and independence on social media.
You’re charismatic and energetic, so you won’t allow a breakup to mess with your mood for too long. Once you bounce back and are ready for action, you’ll shine even harder than before, just be patient.
…Do you agree with these statements? Let’s chat in the comments below!
6. Libra
You’re all about harmony in every area of your life, including relationships, dear Libra. Being dumped doesn’t come easy for you, so you might be out of balance for a while, but you’ll go through it. You don’t like getting involved in conflicts, so you’ll rationalize all the reasons why the breakup happened in the first place.
Another thing about you and your type of breakup reaction is that you won’t show others how hurt you are. You’ll process everything yourself, and find peace and closure within your safe space. However, you’re not a fan of being alone, especially when you’re hurt, so you’ll find comfort in being surrounded by those you love.
You’ll soon realize that everything happened for your highest good, so you’ll move on and be open to finding a partner who truly aligns with your needs and values. Be patient, they will come!
…Good and happy days are coming! Keep your head and chin high, and your heart open!
7. Virgo
Your breakup reaction, dear Virgo, is all about logic. You know who you are and what you bring to the table, and when someone tells you they no longer want you in their lives, you take a few steps back and start analyzing what went wrong. You want to understand how things could’ve been different, not because you want them back, but because you want to know how to improve your next romantic encounters.
Even though you might seem calm and composed, this is only the face you want to show those around you, because deep down, you question everything. While we support your desire to seek closure and pick apart your mistakes in the previous relationship, don’t forget that you learn as you grow, so don’t put too much pressure on yourself. The good news is that your practical side will also help you move on and find the love of your life.
…Dear Virgo, I have a question for you: how do you respond to a breakup? I would love to know how you deal with an emotional situation like this, so let’s chat in the comments below!
8. Scorpio
Dear Scorpio, your initial breakup reaction might not be the healthiest one, so pay attention to how you feel, and don’t react on impulse! Rejection isn’t your cup of tea, and when you get dumped, you’re more likely to experience a mix of deep hurt and betrayal.
You might not always show it, but you’re emotional, so there’s a chance you’d like to seek revenge on your former partner. The stars say you’re passionate and intense, and you like being in control. Choose your weapon, Scorpio, because you can either throw yourself into your emotions, pick up a new hobby, or invest your time and energy into a project that will help you grow.
However, don’t use this as a distraction, because it’s always good to process your feelings, understand what went wrong, make peace with the past, and move on to a brighter future. You might feel hurt and think that you won’t fall in love again, but don’t forget that everyone’s different and there are many amazing people out there who deserve the best of you. Keep your heart open, because you might be surprised at how good things can get!
9. Capricorn
When a Capricorn is dumped by the person they love, they usually respond with stoic composure. They might not agree with the breakup and would like to tell the other person to take it back, but they know it’s going to be for the best in the long run.
Ruled by Saturn, Capricorns are all about their dignity and goals, and if they know something better is just around the corner, they won’t ask their ex to take them back. Even though they’re hurt, they will mask it under a reserved or pragmatic exterior. They might cry, but they much rather process their emotions privately and only share them with close ones.
Since this zodiac sign is known for being hard-working and self-reliant, they will gladly turn their energy and loss into a new project. They know the best way to get over someone is to use everything you’ve learned in the relationship to improve yourself and be better for the next partner.
10. Sagittarius
Here’s a breakup reaction that will put a smile on your face. When Sagittarius is dumped, they’re more likely to react with a desire for freedom and optimism. Even though they might be hurt that the relationship is over, they will quickly turn their pain into excitement. They know that when a door closes, a window opens, and a breakup is no exception.
Ruled by Jupiter, the planet of abundance, Sagittarius is all about exploring new opportunities, projects, and adventures. They’re usually positive, so they’re more likely to see the end of a relationship as a chance to grow, learn, and explore. Even though they might be hurt, they won’t dwell on their negative emotions for too long. Life is too short to be obsessed with something that didn’t work out in the first place, isn’t it?
…If you’re a Sagittarius, leave a comment below and let me know if you’re team fun or team hurt after a breakup, because I feel like you’re the best of both worlds.
11. Aquarius
Aquarius needs time and space to process their emotions after a breakup. Even though their breakup response might suggest they don’t even care about what’s happening, this is only their way of coping.
This zodiac sign is known for being creative and intelligent, and they will use self-reflection and logic to process their feelings and analyze how everything went. According to astrologers, Aquarius people value independence, so they will try everything they can to put themselves in a good mood.
A breakup might not be the greatest thing in their lives, but they will throw themselves into projects, activities, and ideas that will make them feel happy, free, and loved.
…It’s all about seeing the glass half full, isn’t it?
12. Pisces
Pisces are known for being sensitive, adaptable, generous, and imaginative, and a breakup can be pretty tough for them. They usually attach to the person they’re with and will gladly invest their time and energy in the relationship. Unfortunately, things don’t always work out the way we want, and when Pisces is dumped, they’re more likely to feel overwhelmed and heartbroken.
Their immediate breakup response might be full of emotions, but after a while, they will retreat to their own world to mourn the loss of something they found special. Being in their own world will help this zodiac sign to connect with their spirituality and art, and their dreamy nature will help them to feel good again. Even though Pisces can dwell on the emotional impact of a romantic connection, they will eventually remember that they can only go up, and their resilience and inner compassion will help them heal and be stronger than ever.
So, my dear Pisces, give yourself time and grace to process your feelings! After you’re done mourning the end of the relationship, you can start those creative projects of yours, because you know you’re destined for greatness!
Takeaway
Don’t forget that your zodiac sign can only act as a guideline in your life, and you shouldn’t base every life decision on it. Speaking of that, your breakup response depends on your life experiences, how the relationship was, and how invested you were in it. Whether you feel hurt, free, or need more time to understand how being dumped makes you feel, take your time and don’t neglect your feelings.
Think about what didn’t work and why, and learn from your past mistakes. Your partner then only saw the best version of yourself that was available in that specific time frame, but you keep growing and evolving, and you can become even better. Don’t feel discouraged, don’t hide your emotions, and put your energy and creativity to good use. Once you focus on yourself and how to become even better, you’ll also attract a more suitable person into your life. Be patient and trust the process; something amazing is waiting for you!
With that being said, what are your thoughts on these breakup responses? Do you agree with any of these? Do you feel like your zodiac sign has a say in how you react when you’re dumped? Leave a comment below, because we’d love to know what your thoughts are. And if you want to understand more about the way the stars influence your life, here’s a fantastic book for you: The Astrology of Love & S*x: A Modern Compatibility Guide (Zodiac Signs Book, Birthday and Relationship Astrology Book).
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